Been completely bummed out over an argument about me selling items from another persons pattern.  If you don't want me selling the finished product then don't sell the pattern.  It's that simple.  If you want the monopoly on the project then don't sell the pattern or post it online for free.  Come on.  And don't TELL me what I can and cannot do with my material and time and energy.  Thank you TotusMel for ruining tatting and Etsy for me.